Mom had and recovered from Colon Cancer when she was in her late 70’s. Her doctor found her cancer during a colonoscopy and “rushed” her (within days I think) to the operating table and removed a big part of her colon. Because the doctor “got it all”, Mom didn’t need to go through chemo or radiation. The evidence of her operation was one HUGE scar on her abdomen. She went on to live to a ripe old age of 92.
After 1993, when Mom was diagnosed, we (her children) were all told to begin getting routine colonoscopies.
Since then, I’ve had many. My first one was the most horrendous experience of my life. I decided I would be the smartest person by scheduling my first colonoscopy and my first mammogram on the same day. My goodness, how could I take TWO days off work for stupid medical purposes!! And deciding NOT to get sedation for the colonoscopy was my 2nd BIG HUGE mistake. But I digress…
Every colonoscopy I’ve had which were every 3 years, then every 5, the doctor found pre-cancerous polyps. EVERY TIME. Today, December 2022, I had my latest colonoscopy and the doctor found NONE.
What’s with that?! What happened?
Was the doctor in a hurry? She check the box “Excellent” for prep. The post-report shows she got around EVERY corner, right around to the “end of the line” – and she found NOTHING!
What changed?
Thinking… looking back on the last 5 years, there’s a few things I’ve changed but ONLY in my diet.
I don’t drink cow’s milk anymore, only soy beverage
I snack on nuts (almonds, walnuts, pastitsios)
I don’t eat red meat (only Costco meatballs occasionally)
These are records from the archives in Tallinn that Kaido Õunpuu got for me in 1988. Kaido is Eduard’s son. I put on the pictures of Karl and Aliise. You can view all the children in the Photo Gallery.
All records indicate that “Margaret” was Mary Morrison, born Mary Margaret Morrison.
John was actually only predeceased by his 1st wife, Florence. The predeceased son referred to here was Donny Morrison, who came to live with John as a young boy with his mother, Mary Morrison. Donny and Jackie (John) were blood brothers, (sons of Mary) and not John Gallson’s biological sons.
After Grampa returned from WWI, December 1918, and was discharged from the Canadian Army January 1919, travelled across the border on June 10, 1919 at Buffalo, and moved to Wheeling, West Virginia. (1320 Water Street).
On December 16, 1920, Grampa filed a Declaration of Intention for Naturalization, then two days later, on December 18, 1920, he travelled to Howitzer Co., 6th Infantry, Ft. Thomas, Kentucky, and enlisted in the United States Army for 3 years for which he was awarded a $90 bonus and travel pay back to Wheeling where he likely had his physical and received a typhoid and paratyphoid shots on January 14, 1921. He only served for 6 months and 21 days before being discharged due to “reduction of the Army…” at Camp Jackson, South Carolina. He final pay being $142.25.
Sometime during that 6 months or after, he must have been in Adah, Fayette, Pennsylvania, as the United States Veterans Administration have an “index card” (undated) with his name on it.
Adah, Pennsylvania
Uncle Phil wrote to the United States Army asking for Grampa’s records and he was told that those records were likely destroyed in a fire.
Today (March 13, 2022), I filled out an online form at https://vetrecs.archives.gov/. Update: January 20, 2023, received envelope from National Archives with “reconstructed” documents from the 1973 fire. Sent a thank you letter with a request for explanation of Adah index card.
When Grampa file his Declaration of Intention for Naturalization (No. 1914) to the US government, he had 7 years from December 16, 1920 to complete the application. The application shows a lot of information. It states he crossed the border from Canada to the US on June 10, 1919. I search on Ancestry.ca through all the June 1919 border crossings at Buffalo and could not find his name. (Side thought: perhaps because he went by train, those records are somewhere else.)
Joan Vera Smith nee Gallson was born in Wauchula, Florida, January 4, 1925. She came to Ontario, Canada in 1929. She lived in Mattawa, Rutherglen and Toronto. She married Lloyd Smith in 1943 and lived in Rutherglen, Ontario where she had 4 children. Lloyd and Joan lived in Porcupine, Gravenhurst and then North Bay. After Lloyd’s death in 1988, Joan married Albin Miklautsch and continued to live in North Bay. After Albin’s death she remained in North Bay until she required assisted living. She then moved Huntsville to be close to her daughter Carol shortly before her death in 2017.
1925 Birth Amendments
1925 Joan’s original Certificate of Birth
1927 age 3, maybe 1928
Baby Babbs with Joan and Donny – 1936
Baby Babbs with Joan and Donny
Joan with her church group 1940 (Note: Doris Whalley in back row, later Doris McLaren)
1941 Joan on Phil’s bike with Donny in background
Joan with half-sisters, Babbs, Hilda and Maisie ca 1941
1941 Joan with Babbs, Hilda & Maisie
1941 with two Gordon boys and Joan looked after in North Bay
1941 Joan with Jean Sperberg & Muriel Brown
Joan Gallson 1942
Joan Gallson 1942
Joan Gallson 1942
1942 Jean and Joan Gallson
Joan with Barbara, Maisie & Hilda – 1942
1942 Joan and Lloyd Cross (Bessie’s brother)
1942 Joan and Vivian Barr
1941 Joan Gallson, maybe 1942
Joan’s certificate of training in 1942
1943 Joan with Jean Hough at Toronto Zoo
1942 Joan – bridge going to Pine Lake
1943 Base Bordon
1943 Joan Gallson in Toronto
Joan in Toronto 1943
1943 Joan in Toronto (likely a photo booth)
1943 Joan in Toronto (likely a photo booth)
Joan, Dorothy, Eleanor and a friend in Iroquois Falls ca 1943
1943 Lloyd & Joan in Toronto at waterfront
1943 Joan on her honeymoon (North Bay)
Dorothy Ollivier and Joan ca 1945
1947 age 23 Gallson Studio
1947 Joan Gallson
age 47 – Gallson Studio
Joan Smith 1948
Joan and Lloyd Smith 1948
1949 Donna with Joan
Joan, Carol & Donna visit Jean, Sandra, Colleen and Marilyn
1949 Lloyd and Joan (taken in Mattawa)
1952 Joan and Lloyd (Mom’s new do)
1953 Smiths, Olliviers and Mawhineys
Lloyd Smith’s family 1955
1955 Lloyd, Joan, Donna, Carol & Wayne
1958 Joan Smith as District President of the WI
Newspaper photo ca 1960
Newspaper photograph ca 1960 Women’s Institute
Christmas 1960 at the Buchanan’s
1962 Christmas at the Buchanan’s
Christmas 1966 in Rutherglen
Lloyd and Joan’s 40th Anniversary – 1983
Lloyd and Joan 1986
Joan’s wedding to Albin Miklautsch 1994
Joan’s birthday 2004
Joan and Wendy at Botanical Gardens, Hamilton 2005
Smith Family Reunion 2009 – Penetanguishene
Carol, Phill and Joan 2012 in Joan’s apartment at Empire Living, North Bay.
Joan’s 90th Birthday 2015
Joan at nursing home in Huntsville 2016
Joan 2016 at Nursing home in Huntsville
Wayne, Rita and Joan at Carol’s house in Huntsville 2016
What was my mom like? My mom was awesome. She always had my back . Even made my sisters angry because she spoiled me so much. She was a city girl who had to become a farmers wife and she did most things better than the farm girls like. Knitting , CREWEL EMBROIDERY, CROCHET, QUILTING… Read more: What was Mom like (from Wayne)
SEE UPDATE AT THE BOTTOM. Mom remembers being split up in homes. I tried to find documentation from the Children’s Aid Society in North Bay, but I could find nothing. At some point, Grampa managed to get the children back together again by hiring a young, pregnant, unwed mother – Mary Margaret Morrison. Mary was… Read more: John Alone With 3 Toddlers
Joan was born in Wauchula, Florida, January 4, 1925 to Florence Maude Peters of London, England and John Edward Gallson of Saaremaa, Estonia (born Johannes Ounpuu). In 1929, the Gallson family, including her older sister Jean and younger brother Phil, moved from the United States to Widdifield, Ontario, area. Joan’s first memories are when she… Read more: Joan Vera Gallson’s Life
In 1942/43, my Mom went to Toronto to work at the Inglis factory which had been retrofitted for bullet and guns manufacturing in support of the war effort. It was an opportunity for Mom to make the extra money she needed to pay for her wedding dress. She went with my Dad’s cousin, Iva Rose… Read more: Joan in Toronto
Mom didn’t remember having any aspirations or dreams – only “to get the hell out of that house!” She consistently described her life as a child as horrible, filled with beatings and abuse by the hand of her stepmother who allegedly made unreasonable and impossible demands that could never be fulfilled. Stories of sneaking food… Read more: Joan Gallson – The Teenager
After the death of Joseph Henry Peters in 1910, Hannah would have struggled I’m sure to make ends meet. Perhaps the Great West Railway helped her out.
My curiosity got the better of my wallet and I paid Find My Past to see the 1921 Census for Hannah. And I got a BIG surprize!
Hannah Peters; Head; 51y4m; F; Widow; … Office Clearner @ Great West Railway, Paddington Ellen Peters; Daughter; 27y10m; F; Single; … quilt Machinist @ Manor Park Works, Harlesden Edith Peters; Daughter; 18y4m; F; Single; …Quilt Machinist @ Manor Park Works, Harlesden Albert Peters; Son; 16y2m; M; Single; … Shop Assistant @ Matthews & Steel, Harlesden Phyllis Peters; Daughter; 7y5m; F; Father Dead; Full Time student Rose Smith; Sister; 39y2m; F; Single; … Calander & Laundry @ Highfield Model Laundry
Phyllis? Daughter? Born 1924? When Joseph is dead and Hannah is 44? Nah nah, I say. (quoting John Pinet!!)
Who is this Phyllis?
This is totally Hannah throwing herself under the bus for someone. And I have much admiration for her. But who is she covering for?? Ellen or Florence? That in itself is question that may never be answered, even with DNA. But I know its one of them. All I have is the evidence and you can make your own decision.
I now know where Vera comes from – Phyllis Vera Peters. Gramma Gallson (Florence) named her 2nd born JoanVera.
Gramma Gallson’s oldest child, Jean, named her first “born” Colleen Phyllis. She doesn’t know why she chose Phyllis – says she just “liked” the name.
We know that Gramma Gallson names her children after special people – how special is Phyllis Vera to her?
Gramma Gallson was 16 when Phyllis was born (Ellen was 18) – could have been either.
My sister Carol thinks Gramma Gallson would not have left her child in England and immigrated to Canada in 1920. But I think she may have, if she had the intention of bringing her over once she got established. And with that in mind, she would have talked about Phyllis to her American born children. Aunt Jean would have heard Phyllis’s name repeatedly. Aunt Jean and Mom were VERY chatty people and Gramma Gallson was likely the same.
Phyllis looks amazingly like Aunt Jean.
Phyllis with husband Bernard
Jean (middle) with Joan and Phill
If I have it right, Phyllis is a half-sister to Jean, Joan & Phil. And now the children’s names had a “ring” to them: Phyllis & Phillip, Jean & Joan.
The resemblance could follow through Ellen as well.
So now I moved forwarded:
42A St. Mary’s, Willesden, London
Phyllis wouldn’t be of voting age yet.
1935 Electoral Register – 67 Victoria Ave., Wembley, London
1936 Electoral Register has the same address, same people
1937 Electoral Register – same address, same people with the addition of Bernard Bramwell Thorpe. Bernard and Phyllis were married Q2 1937
Interesting piece of history here:
About 1939 England and Wales Register
Historical Context
Initially taken due to the onset of war with the purpose of producing National Identity Cards, the register later came to be multi-functional, first as an aid in the use of ration books and later helping officials record the movement of the civilian population over the following decades and from 1948, as the basis for the National Health Service Register. The 1939 Register is an extremely important genealogical resource, not only for the rich detail and information recorded for each person and household, but also in helping to bridge a thirty-year gap in census data. The census taken in 1931 was destroyed during the Second World War and no census was carried out in 1941 due to the ongoing conflict. The register, as held by The National Archives, contains data only for England and Wales and does not include records from households in Scotland, Northern Ireland, the Channel Islands or the Isle of Man.
1939 Electoral Register Same address, only Hannah, Ellen and Edith and one “still living” therefore redacted. Not sure who this would be since Phyllis and Bernard moved out. (see below) Perhaps Albert moved back in?
1939 Electoral Register
Hannah Louisa – passed away January 28, 1948 leaving £1070 to her two daughters. I note that Phyllis is not mentioned and even though Phyllis was married and on her own, I think that if Phyllis were Hannah’s true daughter, she would have been included in the probate.
On paper, according to documentation, Phyllis Vera Peters is the illegitimate daughter of Hannah Peters, and sister to Florence Peters, my grandmother.
Phyllis Vera Peters showed up on the 1921 British Census, within the family unit of Hannah, Ellen, Edith and Albert Peters. The mystery is whose daughter is Phyllis REALLY? Her birth registration lists Hannah as her mother, with no father. Hannah would have been 45 at the time, so I have come to the conclusion that Phyllis was either Ellen’s or Florence’s daughter.
I felt that if I could find a descendant of Phyllis, perhaps I’d get the answers I was looking for. So I continued my search through the Electoral Registers.
1946 Electoral Register – 89 Tudor Court
1954 Electoral Register – 89 Tudor Court Bernard is on the bottom of the previous column
Ellen has passed away. I recorded her passing as 1962, however I actually do not know if this is true.
My next step would be to try and find any Canning on Facebook and in particular Suzan Dove nee Canning and Brenda Canning nee Thorpe. I felt that women might be more inclined to keep old boxes of photos and memorabilia.
I found a marriage between a Suzan Canning and a Dove. Looking from the other “side”, I could find a marriage between a JONATHAN Dove and a Canning.
I searched Facebook for months, looking for a Suzan Dove, Suzan Canning, Stephen Canning or Paul Canning in England. And then….. I find her. Suzan Birdsall Canning, who has “Friends” who are Dove’s and a brother Paul!! I messaged her a few time, but I saw she wasn’t very active on Facebook, but Paul was. So I FB messaged him and he messages back promising to tell Suzan to message me.
AND SHE DID!
This is a picture I already had of “Edie in her garden”. This one and Gramma Gallson’s passport picture were the only pictures we had of the Peters.
Suzan sent me this picture of Edie! Ancestry has a “colorize” option. It looks great!
This is a picture of Phyllis and Bernard Thorpe.
Bernard & Phyllis
Suzan let me know that her Mom, Brenda Thorpe was adopted. Phyllis had a son, Phillip, who only lived a few days, and then adopted Brenda. I was a little disappointed but Suzan also told me that her “Gran” (Phyllis) was very dear to her and she had great memories of her. Brenda died a couple of years ago (around 2020ish).
Suzan also had very fond memories of Aunt Edie and then revealed the open family secret: Brenda was actually the daughter of Aunt Edie and when Aunt Edie was dying she told Brenda that she was real family – not an outsider. Edie was born in 1903 and Brenda was born in 1943. The story is likely true. Phyllis would have known that when SHE was born, Hannah adopted her to save whatever scandelous repercussions against the reputations of Florence or Ellen. So Phyllis likely didn’t think twice to adopt Aunt Edie’s baby as her own, her only son having died as an infant.
Suzan was born Canning and married Jonathan Dove. They had 3 children and then Jonathan died. Suzan entered into a relationship with Giovanni Lisi and had 2 more children. She is now with Mark Birdsall and goes by Suzan Birdsall.
Shortly after this, Shelley Canning reached out to me on Facebook. She is Suzan’s younger sister. Shelley had Aunt Edie’s scrapbook which is where the drawing of Gramma Gallson came from. I hope to get more insight into this scrapbook soon.
UPDATE: Suzan Birdsall passed away January 2024, and her father passed away Christmas Day 2023.
When I’ve been searching the information on the S. S. Metagama, often the headline says the “Famous” Metagama. Even on Ancestry.ca, one of the welcoming banners talks about someone grandparents fleeing Poland on the Metagama. Below is a painting of the Metagama leaving Liverpool.
Pennington, Oswald Franklin; SS ‘Metagama’ Leaving Liverpool; Comhairle nan Eilean Siar; http://www.artuk.org/artworks/ss-metagama-leaving-liverpool-166581
This is from the Library and Archives Canada website from 2010, which I can no longer find:
Settlement Schemes by Glen Wright, Library and Archives Canada
Introduction
The genesis of post-First World War settlement schemes began in Britain during the war as a plan to settle ex-service men and women throughout the Empire. An Overseas Settlement Committee was established and, for the first time, the British government took a direct interest in emigration. Legislation was passed, agreements were entered into with the various Dominions, and potential emigrants were recruited and selected to resettle in Canada, Australia and New Zealand. These initiatives made the 1920s a unique decade in the history of British immigration to Canada.